In intuitive readings sometimes I need to repeat the Source message a few times as the person doesn’t want to hear it; asking me the same question again and again.
Since I started doing readings, I had many young women coming to me, all with a very similar problem.
They were infatuated with a guy for years ( not the same one ), some even for over a decade, convinced that guy is their soulmate.
‘He just doesn’t know that.’
So these women came to me – not to hear the truth – but to confirm their conviction ( and stay in their denial ).
Source messages were very clear, there was no confusion: the guy they were into, didn’t feel the same way about them.
And still, those women kept repeating:
‘I feel I just need to share my feelings with him. When he hears I was into him all these years, he will realise he is in love with me too.’
Or: ‘For me it wasn’t just a summer fling.
I stayed in love with you all these years.
The way you left and disappeared on me, wasn’t ok. Why are you so cruel to me? Why do you keep hurting me? Why don’t you just love me back?’
These women acted as the guy they were obsessing with, owed them to feel the same way towards them.
“He must love me, because I love him.”
‘We are soulmates, I know that. He just needs to realise it and we’ll be together happily ever after.’
When the Source message can’t come through, usually what prevents us from hearing the truth is our childhood trauma.
So in those instances I normally stop the reading and proceed with some therapeutic interventions and soul movements for the person I work with.
Most often adults in those situations are also in denial about their ‘happy and loving childhood’.
Even though they don’t love themselves.
Even though they don’t like themselves.
Even though they carry tons of shame about their looks, their bodies and who they are as people.
Even though they are filled with self-loathing and self-disgust.
If you have found yourself in some of these scenarios, please remember:
~ if you are into someone for years and they don’t return the same feelings back at you, they are Not your soulmate
~ this is most likely trauma bond and what can help is trauma healing therapy
~ when there is a mutual deep connection on soul level between two people it is normally super strong and it never requires us to tell the other person how we feel about them so they can notice us and love us back
~ those mutual deep soul connections are so strong that people move continents because they ‘feel the call’ from the other soul
~ if you don’t like yourself, if you self loathe and carry loads of shame about yourself, it is very unlikely you had a happy, loving childhood – no child in those circumstances can ever grow up into an adult who feels so unlovable
Free your Shadow. Live your Truth.
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