How many times have you heard: “Listen to them, they’ve been together for 10+ years, they’ll tell you the secret to a healthy and successful relationship. If someone knows, they sure do!” I know I have heard this myself at least a zillion times. And unfortunately, for a very long time, I actually deeply believed… Continue reading A Very Dangerous Lie About “Happy” Long-Term Couples
Category: Coaching
Truth vs Illusion
” As people, we have a VERY complicated relationship with the truth. Very few of us actually WANT it, no matter what we might say to the contrary. Very few of us truly see The Actual Value of Truth. Often, those of us who are resistant to the truth also have a very hard time… Continue reading Truth vs Illusion
Boundaries – Say NO When You Mean It
I DON’T KNOW. Do you often hear yourself saying: “I don’t know”? “I can’t tell”? “I am unsure how I am feeling about xyz”? “I am confused”? “I don’t know” must be one of the biggest lies throughout our life we tell ourselves and others. Deep inside, we always DO know… Continue reading Boundaries – Say NO When You Mean It
R U OK DAY
Today is apparently ‘Are you OK? day’. It makes me so sad that humans need to have a day to ask one another if they are OK. What has this world come to? I will never forget how shocked I was, moving abroad for the first time, almost 20 years ago, when… Continue reading R U OK DAY
Choose Love, Not Fear
A week ago I have decided to go on a four day hiking&camping trip on my own. The first thing my husband said was: “Alone?” “Are you sure?” “I don’t know if it’s safe?” “Won’t you be scared?” Just over a year ago my husband did the same trek alone and was admired… Continue reading Choose Love, Not Fear