To be able to perceive other people and to feel, see, hear, understand and communicate with them, you need to attune to them. You need to tune in to them as if you are them so you can feel or imagine that other person’s emotional experience and understand what they are feeling. This is what… Continue reading Reaching Connection Through Attunement
Category: Relationships
Stop Saying: I Stay For The Kids
Few people talk about the damage that comes from growing up with parents who stayed together and cannot stand each other. Few people talk about the damage that comes from growing up with a skewed perception of love… Staying in unhealthy or toxic situations doesn’t help children. It teaches them it’s a normal part of… Continue reading Stop Saying: I Stay For The Kids
Reflections After our Weekend Workshop
Relationships and Trauma – Couples&Singles Weekend Intensive is behind us. I deeply respect and appreciate every group of beautiful people I’ve had the opportunity to work with so far. But this group was the most special to me ever. Soul family in one place. What I experienced last weekend for the first time in any… Continue reading Reflections After our Weekend Workshop
Therapy Just Makes Me Feel Worse
Your Decisions and Actions Must Align with the New Awareness that you gain or you will be even more out of alignment than you were before. It is easy to see that if you become aware that you are in an abusive relationship, if you stay in that relationship, it will be even worse to… Continue reading Therapy Just Makes Me Feel Worse
Danger of Parallel Monologues in Communication
Since arriving back to my homeland two years ago, I still struggle engaging into real and meaningful conversations. To my utter shock and horror, most people over here communicate in ( a long ) parallel monologues. And I am afraid I am starting to do the same… The most interesting about it is that most people… Continue reading Danger of Parallel Monologues in Communication